Do a programmer need to be lover ?

Do a Programmer need to be lover? yah i am not joking, we are the strangest creature of GOD, Dont we??? we have enigma of computers and keyboards but
we still possesses heart LOL!!!! Actually i was thinking about my life history and than i reminded one the "key advice" from one of my senior when i used
to be in college. He one day came while i am typically a stereotype of BONGA PROGRAMMER [apology if you don't understand it, this is my own term , combination
of a bookworm plus core dedicated person who dont look out of the box/world ----You must know what i mean box], so he came to me and said "usman i some time
feel that you cant be a big lad in programming"[hay hay he is touching my nerves]. I asked "why do u think like that" . He said "hay dude you dont have
any girl sitting right with you while working on your assignment, look at me while i am in the lab"[as that guy used to have two LOLs].
I often remembered his words many time in my life later on, i dont know this love feeling given me more passion to work or taken my way out but i still
feel that sometime when i am really dejected i can either none at all [infinite loop with no statement] or i can just bulldoze every thing in an instant.
What you think do we be a lover or not ?